If I had to stop seeing my current man, I wouldn't go back on the website. Thats just crazy. We make love only twice a year', 'If I had known 10 years ago that I would be doing this, I would have been disapproving.' don't open the door to something you'll both regret. I've tried everything to improve our relationship. I didn't embark on an extramarital affair lightly. I do know what it's like to be cheated on – it happened to me during a previous relationship and it's not nice. I know that sounds harsh but hopefully you wanted an honest answer! Taking the wedding vows is sacred. At first, we would meet for coffee. 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If my partner gave me the OK to have sex with another man I would feel like he no longer truly loved me. you two really need to re-evaluate what your marriage means to you and if an open marriage would be more appropriate. as far as I am concern once a partner cheat it will b very very difficult to let go. She said shes been fantisizing about it for a while, and told me this the other day and im at a loss. What thoughts would run through your mind while she is sleeping with the other man. the reason why i say no is the fact nothing will be the same you may think you can handle it ( and you might) she may think she can handle it ( and she might) but the odds are against the both of you handling it even if you think you can. Wedding vows usually include something along the lines as becoming one with each other. I am disabled and also have difficulty in getting and maintaining an erection; there is no realistic hope of that ever changing. I dearly hope he won't find out, though, as I don't want to lose him and the impact on the children would be terrible. I can't believe there are so many sinners here and think it's ok. You would be an adulterer...that's one of the Ten Commandments. How can I get her to reconcile? Actually it really turns me on. Your wife is crazy and I could say that a sl** will only do such shameful things. Fellas, be honest not harsh am I done in the dating game . If I saw a wedding ring, I didn't let it put me off. Like why does she want to sleep with another man...are you not good enough or something? Now, whenever she says she don't feel like being intimate you're gonna always wonder if she's thinking of that other guy when it may not be the case. I dont know what to do. There was only so much I could do and I didn't want to leave him. I’m 22 and people my age and younger are married and I’m not. Please notice that the heading for this category is "marriage & divorce"... marriage is what you have now (although it sounds as if at least one of you has some issues) and divorce is what you'll have if you take her up on her offer. The world has no morals. It’s not a good sign if you have misgivings about your wife sleeping with another man before it’s even happened. even if you wear a condom??? I've tried everything to improve our relationship. I added my details, just to test the water, and soon got lots of responses. ? Photograph: Lydia Goldblatt for the Guardian. The whole situation is gonna stir up alot of jealousy in the both of you eventually. If she is really wants to do so, it shows that she has actually done before no matter with your consent or not coz she has set her mind in doing so. Guest Man. Personally I'd say no because a marriage is two people and only two people. We make love only twice a year. didn't embark on an extramarital affair lightly. I'm flattered by the attention. Alternatively, one man I found very attractive couldn't meet when I could – I think his wife was suspicious, so we couldn't take things further. now if you and her have children..... i beg you not to consider till your kids are of age becuase not only will you have destroyed you marriage you will have litterally destroyed the only thing on this planet the means anything any. I'm not being self-righteous, but, if there were no rules to follow we'd all be killing one another for anything. I'm very careful not to leave any clues and always meet far from our home so I won't be spotted. I feel like crap because I’m not married. You don't waste time that way – you can tell instantly if there's any chemistry and you can quickly make your excuses if there isn't. No one time can turn into anthoer. No....then there would be no marriage. Is marriage all that? RELATED: An Open Letter To My Husband Who Left Me For His 22-Year-Old Mistress I was a little surprised that he was so blasé about it, but in reality it did not shock me. now ask your wife if its ok for you to have sex with any one you chose??? He is a successful businessman and very attractive. Im sure this is normal considering i was her first. is that something you're willing to live with? We've been together for 10 years; I still love him and he loves me but physically it's been very frustrating. There are other ways to be adventurous. ask your self a question would it be ok for your bride to have sex with someone with out telling you? She will dance with them occassionaly. It stays fresh because we always see the best side of each other – no boring discussions about the electricity bill or rows about whose turn it is to take the bins out. Our friend is coming to visit us in August and he mentioned maybe including him in some play. Cool she wants to get your permission to cheat on you awwwwwww and how sweet , so she doesnt feel guilty about her actions she's going to let you sleep with someone else too.. what a wonderful wife u have .. After my wife and I got married, I admittedly got too comfortable and stopped trying as much as I did when we were dating. Thats what I have to say about the subject. How do you think about the answers? My wife told me that she has been having feelings for a co-worker of hers, at first I was conflicted because I thought she meant a guy but then she told me that it was another woman. He definitely has a lower sex drive than I have and doesn't seem that keen. and vice-versa. Mine still live with me but they're teenagers who have their own lives, so I have plenty of free time. My wife and I have roleplayed this for months now. IMO it is madness to go there. more. Should I let my wife have sex with another man? Should we fulfill fantasy and have wife sleep with another guy while i watch. Life would not be the same between you two. ? You can sign in to vote the answer. If I had known 10 years ago that I would be doing this, I would have been disapproving. Join Yahoo Answers and get 100 points today. What he doesn't know can't hurt him. These are often much younger guys. The grass wasn't greener now I want my wife back but she won't take me back. It's gonna eventually start messing with your ego. Do you have an experience to share? We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids, i gave into temptation and cheated on my wife with my ex lets say her name is tiffany. everytime you come home late, "you were with HER, weren't you?!" No ring. That way his own wife can go to work and collect the $60,000 and after my wife goes through labor and pops out the baby, she will hand over the baby to James who will receive a baby with his own genes in it. I met half a dozen men over the next few months and slept with three of them. Get your answers by asking now. But I carried on and learned to disconnect from the emotional side. We make love only twice a year. My e-leaflets Thrilling A Woman In Bed and Looking After Your Relationship should help. That's why when Jesus comes back He will weed out all those that have broken the Ten Commandments (except for the ones that have ask forgiveness and started a new life with Him). It's telling that to join the website it is free for women but men have to pay. I got caught and she left me. Thats just crazy. If your wife wants to sleep with another man, it could be because: She’s trying to find a replacement guy, so she can then ask for a separation divorce and move in with him right away. Im only worried that my husband may regret sharing me. And no morning breath because we've never fallen asleep together. She's gonna have to worry about wether or not she has to even the score and let you sleep with someone else. wow...well at least she was straight forward with you. We've been together for 10 years; I still love him and he loves me but physically it's been very frustrating. Once I took one look at the man through the cafe window and didn't go in. There is usually flirting and just minor touching. His excuse has always been the same: that he's too tired. It's gonna eventually start messing with your ego. James said that he wants to sleep with my wife, impregnate her, and let her have the baby. The sex is fantastic – uninhibited and adventurous. Instead I would have to think long and hard about my relationship at home. is that worth it ?? If you two do agree to this I'd be using condoms afterwards because you dont know what this other guy has. In bed, my dates sometimes suffered from performance anxiety, due to guilt and nerves, probably. Email experience@theguardian.com, 'I still love my husband and he loves me, but physically it's been very frustrating. My wife wants to know what its like to sleep with another man. That way she gets back at me and back at her (tiffany) as well. ? it sounds to me as if there has been a pre-relationship already in the making. Sex binds a couple emotionally and physically, to open the door even a little bit to another man you will be risking your wife wanting … The whole situation is gonna stir up alot of jealousy in the both of you eventually. You practically watched your wife cheat on you. if yours or her answer if no then the fact is you cant handle it and it will be the begining of your divorce. 32% are likely to sleep with someone else compared to just 14% of women While many claim that they can have no strings sex without developing any feelings, this is harder than it sounds. i doubt if you say "no" that it will actually matter. Then a year ago I met someone whom I decided to see regularly, and I stopped using the website. I'm in my 30s and feel my life isn't over yet, so when two years ago I saw an advert in a newspaper for a dating website for married people, I was intrigued. I could tell that some men were creeping out of the marital bed in the night, judging by the time the emails were sent. I have to be strict, to not let myself develop an emotional connection with him. I even tried sitting on the sofa in a sexy nightie to greet him when he came home, but he just apologised for not feeling up to it and I ended up feeling humiliated and rejected. In bed, my dates sometimes suffered from performance anxiety, due to guilt and nerves, probably. It's very easy to spot the dodgy men. When I come home afterwards, my husband is usually still at work, so he doesn't even know to ask where I've been. J_cal.... i would say no especially if you have kids. your wife has probably had her eye on this guy for some time. Two kids and eight years later. Advice Column: Wife wants to sleep with another woman Dear Kristin Nicole. She asked me if it was ok to sleep with one other person and I can do the same, only one time! - Family - Nairaland ... longer go near her simply end d marriage. His excuse has always been the same: that he's too tired. Hello,my wife just told me she slept with this guy she has been seeing for not up to a month.though we have been separated for about 3years now,and she had never found her self with another man,and now it has happened.what should i do?we have a son,and am hurt blc she has never slept with any other man since we got married. Should I Let My Wife Hook Up With Another Guy? Another thing is I'd find out the real reason behind the question. she already has someone in mind that she wants to sleep with and she is hoping u'll agree so that later she can say "U SAID I COULD" and not hold it against her.. if u want your marriage to fall apart sureeeeee go with her on it.. but if u love your wife, tell her absolutely not! I wouldn't consider having an affair with someone at work – too messy when it goes wrong – but some male attention and uncomplicated sex seemed an attractive option. If you ever had a married neighbor living in an apartment next door and you were a single guy, what was it like? The anticipation of meeting him is exciting but it's not like falling in love. Some men were not slow in coming forward; when I requested a photo, more than one sent me a picture of their genitalia, which was just laughable. The first couple of times I had sex, I felt a bit guilty. Its been half a month now and she says the only way she will get with me again is if i let her sleep with my tiffanys boyfriend. Re: ... Go sleep with another woman! No “I love you”. You practically watched your wife cheat on you. Ok, my husband just told me his fantasy is to see another man fvck me. What if the person you sleep with gets hooked on you or her and wants to hook up again and will interfere in your relationship to get with you or her again. She’s become bored with her sex life and life in general with you and has fallen victim to being seduced by a coworker, old friend or a man who likes to prey on married women. We both have children from previous relationships but none together. January 19, 2013 by She Said He Said 94 Comments A man asks Eli and Josie for advice about his wife’s unexpected fantasy. Still have questions? are u nuts or what one time only yeah right if you think that good luck once you get a taste of someone else and you like it you will find a way to go back and get more if your married there shouldn't even be the talk of another you should be making her happy in bed and vice versa something is wrong inyour bedroom and you need to fix it fast. and being constantly badgered about what "she" means to you. If you guys were gonna be sharing yourselves with others, you should have done it before you got married. One time a man wanted me to do things that weren't my cup of tea, including bondage and threesomes, so I didn't meet him again. Incidentally, wife-sharing is not just restricted to watching you with another man. I'm sure he doesn't suspect a thing. Im a pig for that and i regret it. When I turned her down for sex one night, she frustratingly claimed that she was going to find someone who’d show her attention when she wanted it and I told her to go for it. We book into a posh hotel once a month for the afternoon and also meet for coffee or a night out. He also makes me feel attractive and desirable. Will those thoughts drive you crazy. NOT!!.. It is possible that your husband wants to experience a threesome . Broaching the subject with him doesn't work as he isn't comfortable revealing his feelings. I was surprised but not opposed to the idea. It's not kind to compare but he can keep going for hours as opposed to the 10 minutes with my husband. My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? We talked about it, and i told her how it made me feel, and she told me it will always be on her mind. After she does her thing have her get checked. How do you know she hasnt already? He definitely has a lower sex drive than I have and doesn't seem that keen. Well, you pretty much opened the marriage up to cheating. Is a wife suppose to be more important than mother and sister? After the coffee date, if there was a spark we would meet for lunch and after a few dates book into a hotel for the afternoon.
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